Homily, 22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time, Church of Sts Peter and Paul, Garran, Transfiguration Parish, North Woden, 3 September 2017
Last Sunday, Jesus was asking the disciples who people thought the Son of Man was. The disciples in Matthew's account replied that some thought he was John the Baptist and others, Elijah. Unlike in Mark's account, some also thought that he was Jeremiah — the prophet we hear in today's first reading (Jeremiah chapter 20 verses 7-9) lamenting that he has become a laughing stock in the public square. For Jeremiah, speaking up and proclaiming the word of the Lord meant 'insult, derision, all day long'. He thought he would withdraw and just shut up. But he felt impelled to keep proclaiming the good news.
Last Sunday, Peter thought he was in the box seat. He had rightly proclaimed Jesus as the Christ, and Jesus declared, 'You are Peter and on this rock I will build my Church.' Jesus gave him the keys of the kingdom and told him that whatever he bound on earth would be considered bound in heaven. No sooner has Jesus done all this for Peter than Jesus begins to teach about his pending suffering and death 'at the hands of the elders, the chief priests and scribes'. Little wonder that Peter thought himself well situated to take Jesus aside and give him some stern worldly advice, 'Heaven preserve you, Lord. This must not happen to you.' What's Jesus' response to this, his chief disciple, to whom he has just entrusted the whole box and dice for the future? 'Get behind me, Satan! You are an obstacle in my path, because the way you think is not God's way but man's.'
Controversy even within the faith community is not unknown. Here it is at the very outset of the disciples' mission to establish the Church. Not even Peter gets it, during his first encounter with the revelation that the path of Jesus is the path to Jerusalem, the path of suffering and death.
You may have noticed that there is more than enough controversy brewing at the moment about all manner of things involving the Church in the public square. There is to be a plebiscite or a survey about our opinion on the desirable law about marriage. What to say?
For us Catholics, a baptised man and a baptised woman can exchange their marriage vows before the Church's minister. The sacramental marriage bond is 'established by God himself in such a way that a marriage concluded and consummated between baptised persons can never be dissolved'. The couple pledge themselves to each other exclusively for life, freely and without reservation, being open to the bearing and nurturing of each other's children. Most civil marriages in Australia are not recognised by the Church as sacramental marriages.
Many of us Catholics understand our world through the prism of God's revelation or natural law. Through such a prism, we can describe marriage, and not just sacramental marriages, as being 'established by the Creator and endowed by him with its own proper laws'. Mind you, even those of us who find this prism useful need to admit that in Old Testament times, polygamy was seen as acceptable and presumably approved by Yahweh, and the law of Moses allowed the man to divorce a wife.
We live in a pluralistic democratic society in which most citizens are not eligible for a sacramental marriage in the Catholic Church, and in which many citizens do not espouse marriage as an institution established by the Creator. Many of our fellow citizens view marriage as a purely human and malleable institution. We Catholics need to concede that marriage under Commonwealth law is very different from a sacramental marriage.
Civil marriage in Australia is a contract terminable on one year's notice by either party. The parties are then at liberty to enter in to a new contract with another party, and to do so ad seriatim. The parties can enter into the contract with an intention not to bear and nurture each other's children even if they be physically capable. None of these present attributes of civil marriage in Australia coincide with the aspects of a sacramental marriage recognised by the Catholic Church.
Should civil marriage be redefined by our Parliament to include an exclusive contract between two persons of the same sex? Some of our bishops have joined forces with others campaigning for a 'No' vote. Some of our bishops are urging people to vote 'No'. Some of our bishops are not urging people to vote 'yes' or 'no', but pleading that they remain respectful during the campaign.
It is important for us to understand that a Catholic could vote 'yes' or 'no' in the forthcoming survey. It is not for me as a priest or for any bishop to tell you how to vote. I have been happy to tell people how I will be voting, but I have no interest in campaigning and urging my fellow Catholics or even my fellow citizens to vote a particular way. As with most public controversies arguments appealing to Catholics of good will can be made for either side in the dispute — as to what constitutes the common good, and as how best to respect the rights and entitlements of all persons, including children.
Whatever way you are intending to vote, remember that it is important to respect the dignity of all, particularly those with whom you disagree. Both sides are agreed that the outcome should be the one which enhances respect and dignity for all. They just disagree on which outcome would achieve that. So, both sides should be committed during the process of the survey or plebiscite to actions and statements showing respect and dignity for all. Let's recall Paul's injunction to the Romans: 'Do not model yourselves on the behaviour of the world around you, but let your behaviour change, modelled by your new mind.' Let's wish all the fathers amongst us a very happy and blessed Father's Day, and let's pray for all our dads, living and deceased.
Frank Brennan SJ is the CEO of Catholic Social Services Australia.
For those interested in what opinion Fr Brennan will be giving in the voluntary survey and why, see his Lionel Bowen lecture in Eureka Street and his opinion piece in The Guardian.