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While we're still young and beautiful

  • 17 June 2008
Young And Beautiful

Our short history and all the interminable hours since last night have educated us. We're the lucky ones, fashionably thin and functionally eloquent, we get by. Our parents — so diligent, so astute, so rich we can no longer hope to know the simple satisfaction of hardship, amuse ourselves with subtler privations, pricking our thumbs on death's sharp edges, complaining. Oblivion loves us, knows us like a confidante. We belong together, share all the best moments of our lives, flat out or dancing until daybreak, phosphorescing within and without. Chemicals burn our skin and eyes, but whatever does not heal can be replaced, refurbished. Miracles happen almost every day, and money, like me and you, wants to be wasted. When it hardly matters we'll meet each other falling down or swinging aimlessly, stumbling from one glorious disaster to the next. Surely this is the way to live if not to die, as giddy as a circus, as calculated as a Ferris wheel. If wisdom eludes us, bliss explodes like a beer glass against your temple, bleeding just a home-made cure for youthful exuberance. — Jesus! This could go on for years, until something sticky finally slows us down, and we creep, sooner or later, into a universal middle age painlessly resigned and dutifully undistinguished. Don't let it happen to us! Don't let it happen yet, or soon! Don't let it happen while the lights still flash and sear, while the music pumps its fists, while we're still young and beautiful and hungry for that next sweet fix to smooth our wrinkles and fill our hollows and let us sleep throughout another day.

 

Uncle Jeff

I am an uncle twice, the first time to a sweet, young boy, now nine, who, when asked what he might be when he grows up replied 'I want to be like Jesus.' I bit my tongue, fought down those grown-up cynic's jibes. ('You mean you want to walk on water, raise the dead, be crucified for other people's faults?') I smiled, tried not to laugh, and worried where such faith might take him.

The second child is two, a girl, and she adores me — I can't say why. When she phones, her grandmother can barely speak two words before she interrupts, 'Where's Uncle Jeff? Where's Uncle Jeff?' When she is here we play together, hide and seek. She tells me where