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Lying in the confessional

  • 01 September 2009

Tour of duty St Brendan's, where I learnt to hold a plate beneath the tongues of locals. Robed in surplice and cassock, eyeing off the congregation, I saw what ritual and prayer does to faces, how a district organised itself into rows, favoured pews. The priests had little doubt who they were talking to. The essence of ritual is returning. The farmers and their families were as religious as their milking. The altar where I learnt to ring a bell, balance the cruets. Christ's feet were always bleeding as babies crying were carried outside, away from the smokers who would politely enter at the Consecration, then leave after Communion, roll cigarettes and lean against weatherboards. What happened outside Mass affected a community — men clustering into conversations girls comparing weekends or rushing to wait in cars for fathers, while the priest smiled into farmer's confidences. Everybody suddenly became polite: mothers fussing, laughing at his jokes. A three metre concrete square attained the life of a party: the quiet brooders, the listeners, the elevators, the show offs, the weekly pious. Within an hour we were leaving for World of Sport and The Sunday Press.

True confessions The red velvet curtain parting miniature wooden door sliding back a man's face able to be smelt.

Bless me father for I have sinned My sins are lying, being rude to a sister, eyeing off women in Mass.

Is there anything else? Pure and impure thoughts desires I can't talk about.

A monotone absolution, my mood lightening as I raced through The Act of Contrition.

Relieved, almost giddy to get through I join locals kneeling before candles on the altar, the women who stay longer.

I want to be contrite — It appears to be the done thing. My sins have been heard

a part of me has been released — rehashed, reheated, pre-loved. Like others, lying in the confessional

became a duty — inventing sins to keep the peace, to assuage the guilt that never leaves — I'm happy now, but can I be happy later on?

The first of many contradictory Catholic beliefs. The distance in the man's voice rattling through cool absolving words.

Were the priests cheated too, as I was? Or did they come to trust a congregation by the stories told in confession?

Getting a walk in A police siren undermines the quiet approaching knock-off time. Lone figures enter wide streets; harried, faces down.

Families after a spell at the park — prams overloaded with tissues, a squashed sandwich. Children hopping between the footpath cracks

between conversations. That enviable time of heightened telling, of a voice emerging from the chrysalis of watching others.

Light in their eyes, as they interrupt, repeat, stammer whack each other with sticks, parents lugging their cheer down familiar streets.

Of course I am watching all this,